Finding Your Other Light
Like so many I have settled in loveless relationships. Romantic and otherwise. After the most toxic situationship I had ever been in, I decided to be intentionally single, becoming the partner to myself that I wanted from another. Once I was alone, I went through the process of grief, addressed what was easy to ignore because I was so busy focusing on unhealthy relationships with others, and eventually, I finally achieved what I'd always yearned for; a loving relationship. This time, it was with myself.
When I made the choice to be intentionally single, it was the most loving thing anyone had ever done for me. I began to understand how to trust myself again. This clarified my intentions. It gave me a better understanding of what I truly wanted and needed in a relationship with others. I began to journey through the past; what worked, what didn't. What I liked, what I didn't. Eventually, my vision of a healthy relationship was very clear. And so somehow, in some cosmic way, my light found another.
This is my partner in life, in love, and in music.
Love is sacred, treat it as such and you'll find your other light.